Mediation is math + feelings.
I help you resolve both.
The numbers matter—assets, income, support, valuations.
But resolution doesn’t happen on math alone.
People need to feel heard, respected, and understood before they can say yes. And when children are involved, the stakes are even higher.
I bring both: a background in complex financial and business matters, and family law experience, paired with values-level listening that helps parties move from positions to real resolution.
Because durable agreements aren’t just calculated.
They’re accepted.
GETTING STARTED
Mediation Session
Mediations are scheduled as focused 3- or 4-hour virtual sessions. When more time is needed, additional sessions can be scheduled. Secure your preferred date and time on my mediation calendar.
Consultation?
A short conversation can make all the difference. Request a 30-minute phone call to explore mediation, arbitration, or other complex situations. From there, we’ll design a clear and effective process to meet your needs.
Questions?
Not ready to schedule yet. That’s okay. Reach out to jenny@starrlegalsolutions.com or call 651-212-5419 to discuss your situation or ask a quick question.
Services
“I am very glad we chose to work with you. We will definitely reach out in the future.”
— Minnesota Attorney
Mediation
FOR PARTIES WHO WANT LASTING RESOLUTIONS
In a focused, 3- or 4-hour session, I guide parties towards resolution using a clear and fair process in which everyone is heard. Practical solutions take shape as we uncover solutions, together.
Arbitration
FOR PARTIES WHO WANT A TIMELY DECISION
Arbitration is a neutral process where each party presents their position. I listen to all sides, render a decision, and explain my reasoning. The parties agree to follow the decision to resolve the conflict.
Facilitation
FOR GROUPS THAT WANT TO CREATE BRAVE SPACE
You don't need all the answers upfront; you need a skilled guide. I provide a structured process for discussion, planning, and decision-making that builds trust, strengthens relationships, and makes more possible.
About
“Mediation is a great path to sustainable resolution. When people work together to create solutions, they last. My skills help people in conflict do that work together and with confidence.”
— Jenny Starr, Starr Legal Solutions
RETIRED CHIEF ADMINISTRATIVE LAW JUDGE
Experienced in weighing the risks and costs of litigation.
FORMER BUSINESS TAX COMMISSIONER
Deep experience with closely held businesses, complex asset valuation, and high-stakes disputes across industries.
FORMER FAMILY LAW ATTORNEY
Skilled in navigating the human side of conflict with empathy and clarity.
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From 2019 to 2025, Starr served as Minnesota’s Chief Administrative Law Judge at the Court of Administrative Hearings. As chief executive, she led a statewide court delivering impartial, timely, and high-quality dispute resolution services—overseeing more than 10,000 new workers’ compensation cases each year and contested cases involving more than 250 state and local governments.
Previously, she was Assistant Commissioner for Business Taxes at the Minnesota Department of Revenue, responsible for administering the state’s corporate franchise, sales and use, excise, and property taxes. She also served as Tax Policy Manager and as an attorney specializing in estate and pass-through entity taxation—earning recognition as a leading voice in tax policy and legislative negotiations.
Starr began her career at Legal Assistance of Dakota County, providing free legal services to low-income families in divorce, custody, support, and protection order cases. She expanded a countywide pro bono program and later volunteered as appellate counsel before the Minnesota Court of Appeals.
In 2025, she returned to Minnesota’s family law community by co-developing and delivering a 16-hour experiential training in intercultural competency in partnership with the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts–Minnesota Chapter, the Minnesota Chapter of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, and the Family Law League.
Beyond her professional work, Starr is an avid skier and volunteers as an adaptive ski instructor with Courage Kenny Rehabilitation Institute and volunteers as a mediator with the Minnesota Department of Human Rights. She has also taught as an adjunct professor at Mitchell Hamline School of Law.
Admissions to Practice Law
Minnesota Supreme Court
Rule 114 Qualified Neutral Family: Facilitative/Hybrid and Adjudicative
Rule 114 Qualified Neutral Civil: Facilitative/Hybrid and Adjudicative/Evaluative
Memberships
Association of Family and Conciliation Courts
Family Law League Minnesota
American Bar Association
Minnesota Lavender Bar Association
Minnesota State Bar Association
Ramsey County Bar Association
Public Speaking and Publications
Jenny Starr & Aimee Gourlay, Listen, Explore, Resolve: The Role of Mayors in Managing Conflict in Government, Presentation at the League of Minnesota Cities 2026 Annual Conference (Mayo Civic Center, Rochester, Minn., June 2026).
Jenny Starr, Beyond interests: The intercultural dimensions of mediation, Minnesota State Bar Association, Alternative Dispute Resolution Section (May 2026).
Jenny Starr, Beyond interests: The intercultural dimensions of mediation, Minnesota Lavender Bar Association Annual Conference (Feb. 2026).
Jenny Starr, Beyond interests: The intercultural dimensions of mediation, Bench & B. Minn. 24 (Dec. 2025).
Jenny Starr, Aimee Gourlay & Elise Chambers, Listen, Explore, Resolve: Managing Conflict with the Public, Presentation at the Women in Public Service Conference (Hamline Univ., St. Paul, Minn., Nov. 2025).
Community Service
Community Quest, AFCC-MN, AAML-MN, Family Law League, Facilitator
Conference of Administrative Law Judiciary, Judicial Division, American Bar Association, Executive Committee Member (Past)
Courage Kenny Rehabilitation Institute, Volunteer Adaptive Ski Instructor
Dakota County District Court, Volunteer Mediator
Keeping Families Connected Minnesota, Board Member
Minnesota Department of Human Rights, Volunteer Mediator
Minnesota Lavender Bar Association, Board Member and Chair (Past)
Ramsey County District Court, Volunteer Mediator
Education
University of Minnesota – J.D., cum laude
University of Minnesota – B.A., summa cum laude
Professional Development
40-hours Family Mediation Training, AFCC-MN: Trained in the practical components of mediation, child development, family dynamics, property division, custody, parenting time, child support, and more.
30-hours Civil Mediation Skills, Mediation Center: Trained by leaders in the field to provide a flexible and creative process that helps people find mutually acceptable resolutions to their issues and concerns.
Administrative Law Fair Hearings, National Judicial College: Trained in the cornerstone of administrative fair hearings: due process.
Comparative Tax Policy, Harvard University: Trained in analyzing and contrasting tax systems across different units of government to understand their design, implementation, and impact on economic and social outcomes.
International Conflict Resolution, Queens University, Belfast: Studied international dispute resolution and human-rights–based peacebuilding.
Qualified Administrator, Intercultural Development Inventory, LLC: Certified to help individuals and groups understand and develop intercultural competence.
Targeted Universalism, Seed Collaborative / Othering and Belonging Institute: Certified in targeted universalism, a framework that sets universal goals for everyone, and uses targeted strategies to help different groups achieve those goals.